05 April 2006

Pure Refreshment 1.06 -> Of Emeralds and Men

The brown envelope arrived in our mailbox, along with a few other bills and solicitations. What made it different was the phrase printed on the front, stating that our family had won a genuine emerald. Being a kid in elementary school, the thought of a rare gemstone in the Sharrer household was quite fascinating.

After Mom opened the envelope, she was convinced we had won as well. According to the letter, there were no strings attached. We had definitely won a genuine emerald! All we had to do was mail back the certificate verifying our address and wait for the prize to arrive.

A few weeks later, a package arrived at our home. I was incredibly excited as I ran to show Mom what we received. She opened the package and we gazed upon the dazzling beauty of a rare gemstone.

Well, not exactly. There was an emerald inside. But it was almost microscopic in size and wasn’t even shiny. We both laughed. The original letter made it appear we had won a significant item in a contest. In reality, however, our prize wasn’t worth much at all.

We have the ability to be easily deceived by outward appearances. What seems at first glance to be a mild-mannered, friendly individual could actually be someone who physically abuses family members. A person who says, “I enjoy having you around,” may not believe a single word of their statement. A couple that walks into church smiling may be concealing the fact that they had a huge argument on the way and are temporarily on non-speaking terms (sadly, I’ve been a part of this one before).

Jesus understood this fact and took the opportunity to discuss it while teaching a large crowd gathered on a mountainside. The words he shared have significant importance for his followers in the 21st century:

“No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks” (Luke 6:43-45 NIV).

In everything we do or say, whether in public or in private, we provide evidence of what we truly believe about Jesus. That evidence, or fruit, is what determines a person’s reaction to the faith we claim to have. For example, if we say one thing but act in completely different manner, our credibility is compromised. As author Brennan Manning put it, “The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips, then walk out the door and deny him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.” 1

Sure, there are some people who attempt to live dual ‘lives’—one of spirituality in public, but one of shadiness in private—but it cannot last forever. What is hidden will be made known at some point, leaving the individual to decide whether to admit their struggles or deny them altogether (see Luke 12:2). A person will be known by their fruits, whether they choose to claim them or not.

So, what are the fruits that Jesus desires us to exhibit 24/7/365/life? Three come to mind:

  • Selflessness - In the mathematics of Christianity, God > Us (see 1 John 3:20). Thus, more of God and less of us in our lives is a good thing. That way, we are able to be used to share his message of love, hope, and reconciliation to those who do not yet know Jesus as Lord. Our plans tend to get in the way and can sometimes backfire drastically. Exhibiting the qualities Paul mentioned in Galatians (5:22-23—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control) are a good way to allow God to grab the spotlight in our lives that he so richly deserves. All we have to do is get out of the way and let him work.
  • Service – It doesn’t take much to do this—just a willingness to be used and a sensitivity to what others need. It could be as simple as babysitting for a family that desperately needs a few hours away to recharge as a couple—and doing it for free. If a person has been in the hospital and is at home recovering, a homemade plate of cookies can break down more doors than you think. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are, and see what God does.
  • Steadiness – Champion marathon runners do not run an entire race at a sprint. Instead, they choose a specific amount of time they want to run each mile in and stick to that pace throughout the event. Likewise, there has to be consistency in an individual’s time with God in order for their attitudes and actions to become a) more like his and b) more constant in situations that occur. (Having people around to keep a person honest and accountable isn’t a bad idea either.) We must always be on guard to make sure we don’t live one ‘life’ of respectability and another of indecency. The world—and other followers—are watching!

A postscript to the emerald story: A few years later, we won another prize—this time, it was a keyboard. Due to the ‘fruit’ I had seen earlier from this company, I knew there was going to be a catch. It turned out that I was right. The ‘keyboard’—if you can call it that—was the size of a cell phone.

How has God spoken to you about living a dual livelihood? What are the fruits that you exhibit in public and private? Are they the same? Are they different? What do you need to do as a result?

May you strive to be real with God as well as those you come into contact with daily. And as you do, may the Lord refresh you so that you can, in turn, refresh others.

“I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you. Only let us live up to what we have already attained.”
—Paul, Philippians 3:12b-16 (NIV)

“We are moved by the act of God. Omniscience holds no conference. Infinite authority leaves no room for compromise. Eternal love offers no explanations. The Lord expects to be trusted. He disturbs us at will. Human arrangements are disregarded, family ties ignored, business claims put aside. We are never asked if it is convenient.”
—Samuel Chadwick 2


1 Manning, Brennan. Quoted in the preface to the song “What If I Stumble?” by dctalk, November 1995.

2 Quoted in The Joy of Following Jesus by J. Oswald Sanders (Moody, 1994).


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